EXTRAORDINARY LOVE

There are songs you can't stop listening to, and I want my past (2012) self, to think of my current/future self (2018). 

To think of all the songs I had no idea of, the ones who were lying in wait for me.

Just hanging around, waiting for me to discover them.

The Force Which Makes Itself Known

There is Visible Magic.

Videos, photographs which come from time machines of cameras.

Computers are a kind of magic.  Anything going on behind the scenes, which we do not have access to.

Religion might be magic, or the magic of ritual, or the distraction of ritual.  Maybe each person brings their own magic.

Invisible Magic works on people as an unseen, and unfelt force.  Nobody is trying to trick anyone, because here you cannot be tricked.

You can only trust a feeling.  And dive inside of the feeling.  Use it against the dragons of sadness, of depression, of fear and anxiety.  The things which try to pull you apart.  And for which you have no power to fight them.  Take this Invisible Magic and run with it-see how far it takes you.

A Dream of Escape

A dream of escape.

Here in the Northeast in America, we are under a cold snap.

Since Christmas, we have been suffering with below zero temperatures and into the predictable future (according to the iPhone).

And then, with or without a cold (which I have), we are essentially trapped indoors.

I've been lucky to have a writing project to take me out of myself.

The BEST vacation I can ever have. 

You are Always Haunting Me, Melody, Haunting Me

The fewer relationships you have, the more each one seems to haunt you.

I woke up the other morning to realize that I couldn't FATHOM a relationship that was NOT centered in pain.

I attempted to plot out a relationship that would GIVE me things, rather than be defined by absences.  I say plot, like a lighting plot, not a script, because all I could plot were straight lines.  Easy words, "happy", "warm", "thoughtful", but I faltered at every detail. Nothing beyond a stick figure for the man of my dreams.

You were there, floating in the distance, as you always are, sometimes closer than at other times.  Bewildered at the humans below, just as I am here amid them.

I wished I could hold you.  But I had him instead, and it was nice. For the short time it lasted. (He has his own details which I'm not too eager to explore-yet)

It's nice to keep him as a stick figure. Captured, like a butterfly for study.  Beautiful images.  (I can NOT ask him for emotions, and whatever I ask, he will never be able to give.  By definition, I ask the impossible.)

Take All the Pictures You Can

Yes, I realize that the world is taking far too many pictures.

Yes, I realize I will probably never match up all the photos I take of the same thing everyday.  The difference is imperceptible, yet I am riveted by the changes and the similarities.

Because everytime I DO go back to my previous pictures, I am happy. Whatever images made me happy that first time allow me to revisit the shapes again. Look again and again until they become familiar and part of my mental art gallery.

The Blue and the Red which pop when side by side, outside of a favorite theater. 

Sometimes the shapes or the colors no longer speak to me. But the ones that do, the ones which catch my attention may even be more glorious than the original, real life image.

Just this morning, the reflection of leaves on the pond, and the bottom still visible.  And Green leaves with Red stems, and blue in the background, not of the sky-but of the steel and glass building behind it.  Almost as good as the sky.

The First Time I Heard His Name

I know his name existed in my world before I knew him.  (L.Kibbe, the Sot, in a show)

Before I knew I could know a man as a child, and as an old man and as him now.  They are all him now.

How easy it is for his dragon to re-emerge.  Knowing it is actually a part of himself.  He keeps his own dragons.

But I've never been able to explain it to him.  At any age.

Every night, I have a dream with a different Art Director.  That's his world.

Easier to Be Alone

Sometimes, there is the idea of being part of a couple.  A completeness that you can conceptualize.

But then, other times, there is the idea of what things would be like if you were left to the quiet by yourself. Some people haven't ever learned HOW to be alone, they are insecure, afraid of their own thoughts!

Sometimes it is just tedious to be around another person. (MElw, my mum) and although it is nice to imagine the connectedness of the Annual Gathering Family, sometimes it comes up empty.

(A work family seems more sane, if for no other treason than you can laugh at yourself and each other, and witness the moments of crisis, which seem to pass into nothingness every passing day)